Not into extreme. Sensual submissive. I have a good womans instinct and use it a lot so please dont try and take me for a fool.

Please do have some experience or an understanding of the D/s dynamics :) Arrogance is a turn off and I will not respond positively. Also please respect that if you think you can get me to submit within a cpl of messages...please take a running jump off a very high cliff!! In fact I will help push you off lol. Honesty, communication and respect is crucial! Submission can be taken away so easily...are you man enough to look after it?

I am NOT lifestyle NOR do I seek 24/7 TPE. I suppose what I am looking for is a LT lover who has a very kinky side. I have been told by one Dom that he would describe me as a bottom topping. I guess I am. I really do not want one offs. I accept it is a possibility it could/will happen and each time I will learn something from it as well as about myself. I am not asking for a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship (and the likelyhood of that happening will be very slim anyway. I enjoy being on my own). I like my space and respect that he likes his too. Regular contact daily either by phone/text/email and meet in person at least once a wk to every OTHER week would be ideal. (see Im not that much of high maintainence lol).

I have bad points (farting, belching and speaking my mind) but I do like my good points which are, I am romantic, sensuous, sentimental, a passionate woman, a kid at heart, a bit of a rebel, funny, witty and love to laugh. I am also loyal, down to earth and drama free.

Him to be taller than me would be lovely as I am no short a***..especially in heels ;)

Sense of humour is a definate must as well as a personality.

I smoke. I am outgoing, can be shy at 1st, loud (someone said gobby), bubbly and honest to the point of cutting. You have been warned lol.

Size 16/18 with a belly and stretch marks (blame the 3 kids!!). Long long legs that are one of my best features.

I cannot accommodate due t